If you have any problems in your life, and you are expecting a baby, then termination of pregnancy will not be a way out. All issues are resolved over time, and abortion, especially the first one, is often the cause of infertility. Because of what a woman swears herself afterwards all her life.
But there may not be more children
Problems are not eternal, they are solved over time, but an abortion can forever deprive you of the joy of motherhood. After all, this is a serious operation. Medical intervention of this kind (especially during the first pregnancy) often leads to infertility.
In a few years, when financial and housing problems are resolved, you will be a wealthy person, you will begin to dream of a child, but an abortion once made will not allow you to give birth to a baby.
In Soviet times, some actresses took a desperate step to terminate their pregnancy in order to act in films, preferring a career to their personal life. As a result, they were never able to experience the joy of motherhood. They did not have the happiness of hugging their child, taking care of him. Now the ladies are already aged. When they give interviews, you can see with what bitterness they talk about this topic, how much they regret that they did not give birth to their baby, but nothing can be fixed.
A woman who now stands at a crossroads and thinks that, having got rid of an unborn baby, she will solve all her problems is very mistaken. By giving life to another, a person becomes better. The soul is filled with happiness, strength comes and everything becomes on the shoulder. No wonder the wise ancestors said that if God gives a child, he will also give for food.
No job, loved one does not want a child
These words are often repeated by failed moms. They believe they are an excuse to have an abortion.
If the child's father does not want his son or daughter to be born, then this is a serious reason to think about whether he loves you? Such an act will show that it is not. If he values you, he will cherish and never offer such a way out. Adoring you, he will value the joint fruit of love.
If there is no work and money, then such a problem is solved overnight. Register at the labor exchange, they will look for suitable options and pay benefits. Even if a woman does not work, she also receives payments from the social security. Yes, this money will not be enough.
When the baby is born, you can get an hourly job (postman, salesman, cleaner, packer). And for 3-4 hours a mother, a friend, will sit with the baby. Try to find a home-based job. Write articles online, embroider, or find use for your other paying talents.
All this is enough to refuse an abortion, even if the man insists on it. After all, it often happens that a woman, due to an operational termination of pregnancy, cannot later become a mother, and he goes to the one that will give him heirs.
A man may insist on abortion because of little life experience. He does not yet know that when he will hold his blood in his hands, happiness will overwhelm him. Therefore, it is quite possible that after the birth of the first child, he will change his views.
Dream
If you are lucky, and even a very tiny man is already a part of you, then this is a reason for sweet dreams. Imagine how cute, touching, beautiful he will be, how you will dress and wash this doll.
How nice it will be to go out for a walk, talk with the baby. When he grows up a little, he will become your closest friend. You can go with your daughter or son to the park, to the shops. You will begin to teach him everything that you know yourself.
Time is ticking fast. And now you already get enough sleep at night, since the baby no longer wakes you up, now he is your assistant - he goes to the store, cleans up. When you come home from work tired, your daughter or son will cook something delicious for you to please your beloved and best mother in the world. And indeed it is. After all, you gave life to a little man, and this may be a small, but a feat!
