Play snowballs, take pictures of snow-covered trees, make a bird feeder, write a letter to Santa Claus, confess your love - all these little joys you can accomplish in the outgoing year.
So that the pre-holiday bustle does not drive you crazy, outline a list of things you would like to accomplish these days. Don't forget about shopping for groceries and buying gifts, sending greeting cards and calling friends. Divide your plans into important and not so important, mandatory and minor. It will be easier for you to “walk” through a pre-compiled list than to rush from side to side from confusion and uncertainty.
Free yourself from unnecessary relationships, stop them. Take courage and admit to the person that you see no point or any positive prospects in continuing your connection. Bring an outdated romance or friendship to an end. It is possible that your words will sober up your friend and make him wonder if he would like to lose you. In any case, having expressed your position on the basis of the current situation, now you can freely attend discos, parties, walk with anyone, without reporting to anyone. Your chances of meeting and meeting a normal person who is right for you will also increase.
Take a step towards reconciliation if you quarreled with someone close to you, quarreled with someone you love because of little things. You should not "drag" old problems, grievances and quarrels into the new year. This date is a great occasion to reunite your bonds, once so strong and so loosened now. Anything can be a reason for you to try to reconnect gently. Ask for help in bringing home the tree or throwing away the old one, choosing gifts for mutual friends, or congratulating them directly.
Don't be discouraged if things don't quite go the way you wanted them to. Even if you dreamed of celebrating the New Year at a ski resort, alone with your loved one or in a chic dress from a fashion collection, but did not even have time to think over the festive menu, this is not a reason to be upset. Do not make a tragedy out of trifles: let the invited friends get stuck in a traffic jam, the goose is burnt, and the tree is crumbling, create a holiday out of what is, for yourself and for those around you.
Try to keep promises you have ever made to yourself and others that you have not kept. Get rid of the "tails" at work and in school, review your mail and answer those to whom you have delayed answering for a long time. If for some reason you can't keep your promise, honestly admit it. It is too late to postpone "until tomorrow" and "until the first number" - after all, the New Year is on the nose.
Pay off your debts and deal with your debtors. Return money that you once borrowed from someone and ask the people who took it from you to return the money. Otherwise, the feeling that you owe someone or someone owes you will pull you into the past, preventing you from starting the new year with a pure soul. By the way, New Year's expenses may be a convenient reason to ask about the timing of debt repayment.
Clean up the house, get rid of old unnecessary things, wipe the dust. Perform an overhaul in the refrigerator and discard any food that has passed its expiration date or that has simply gone bad. Look through the dishes and waste cups and plates with broken edges in the bin. Also revise your wardrobe and free the wardrobe from things that you have never worn this year. All this will serve as a reason to acquire new dishes in the future and buy new clothes.
The year is becoming a thing of the past, and this is a good reason to think about the future. Indicate for yourself your desires and aspirations in life, set goals and objectives, or refresh your memory of what you once planned. Fix it on paper, hang it in a prominent place and start taking the first steps towards the fulfillment of your plan. New Year is a time of magic, miracles and coincidences, and if you are really looking forward to something, it will certainly come into your life.
