The relationship between a man and a woman usually deteriorates because both accumulate a load of mutual grievances, claims and disappointments. If nothing is done about it, then the situation can reach a rupture.
Necessary
Positive attitude and timing
Instructions
Step 1
A man behaves the way a woman allows him. First of all, you need to clearly define what exactly does not suit you in your relationship. Criticism should be constructive and to the point, so that a person can be guided by this information in the future. At the same time, be prepared for your partner's response, listen to what does not suit him. Tell the man about your ideas of a good, trusting relationship. If a person loves, then he will listen and change his behavior.
Step 2
Tune in to respectful, positive communication. Do not humiliate your partner, do not take out your negative emotions on him - this will only aggravate the situation. If you have been together for a long time, then, most likely, you have accumulated a certain load of disappointments and resentments, so you need to create a friendly, trusting atmosphere so that both of you can realize your mistakes and find a way out of this situation without increasing the number of negative feelings to a partner.
Step 3
Find a time when both of you will be free from the burden of work, children, everyday life and devote this time to each other. Remember how good it was for you together, that you love, please each other with this. If you've been together for a long time, then set up a date with each other.
Step 4
Try to criticize the man less, praise and reward his efforts. This will motivate him to do more and better.
Step 5
Support the man in his endeavors, as well as in difficult life situations. Try to show with words and gestures that you believe in a man and that he will cope with the situation. Of course, the man himself will solve the problem that has arisen, but such support will greatly inspire him.
Step 6
People very often react to situations in a stereotyped way, only you yourself can make an effort on yourself and change your behavior. The other person's reaction to you will change depending on that.
