Psychology 2024, November
Dating can be quite exciting. You worry about how things will go, whether a member of the opposite sex will like you. But sometimes experiences are superfluous and prevent you from expressing yourself. Training Prepare for a date
Australian scientists have identified the factors that keep partnerships or marriage together. And rest assured that not only love applies to them. The age of the partners, previous relationships, and, for example, the smoking of one of the spouses are factors that play a huge role in the success of a marriage, researchers from the Australian National University say
Very often, in the company of their girlfriends, women begin to discuss husbands. And in most cases, things never go further than complaints about their soulmate. "Before the wedding, he was completely different!" they exclaim. And no matter how sad it is, but basically, women themselves are to blame for the negative changes in their husbands
Man is a social being, but there are times in life when you are forced to be alone. This is not a tragedy, you can get used to solitude and even start to enjoy it. Self love Even though it seems to you that everyone has forgotten about you, and you are not interesting to anyone, remember that there is a person whose love you can always count on
A girl named Alina is always happy in marriage, she knows how to be not just a great companion in life, but also a good friend and an excellent lover. Of course, she enters into marriage for love, but Alina is never blind, she knows how to evaluate a man by his actions
In our life, sometimes important events take place that must go perfectly. Often the success of these events directly depends on our self-control. From realizing that they are responsible for what is happening, many people begin to experience intense excitement, which ultimately leads to failure
Delight is a strong feeling, but not everyone can boldly express it without embarrassment. Sometimes people hide their good attitude because they cannot find the right words for it. The art of praise can be learned using simple techniques. Instructions Step 1 Remember that open flattery can make your interlocutor blush
Tolerance to other people's views, actions, lifestyle is a quality that is not given from birth. If it is not laid down by family education from early childhood, you, and the people around you, will have a hard time. However, you can develop tolerance on your own, this requires a high level of self-control and the ability to find harmony in your own soul
Conflicts arise in our life quite often. So that the conflict does not bear destructive consequences, try to follow some rules of behavior in a conflict situation. Let your partner blow off steam. If the opponent is extremely irritated and aggressive, then you will not be able to agree and solve the problem
The roles in Karpman's Triangle are victim, pursuer, rescuer. Many of us experience one of these roles in a variety of ways. What if you realized that you are seriously immersed in one of the roles and cannot find a way out? Any person himself or with the help of a psychologist may well get out of negative roles
Some people lie constantly, others partially hide the truth. But there are few people who want to be deceived. If you look closely at the interlocutor, you can tell the truth he says or a lie. Instructions Step 1 Watch your body language
As in all relationships, in a pair of a man and a woman, a crisis ensues, which has different stages and a certain time period. 1 year The first big crisis comes, according to experts, after about a year of relations. This is due to the fact that the initial crush subsides, and the partners stop looking at each other through rose-colored glasses
Exams have to be taken not only by students, but by those who have graduated from the university long ago. Driver's license, recertification, professional development … There are many reasons. But everyone who passes the exam runs the risk of facing an overtly hostile teacher or examiner
Life in a family, in a circle of friends, among university friends, in society always implies the presence of a number of people who, with their views on life, morality, morality, or simply order in the apartment, are so strikingly different from us
Hardly anyone is pleased to hear criticism in their address. However, often it is she who helps a person to see mistakes. However, understanding this positive moment does not always allow you to calmly perceive the comments of others. Indeed, criticism often hurts pride and causes resentment, anger, anger
Psychologists say that the main reason for failure in relationships with people, in achieving goals is self-doubt. This is understandable, because those around you cannot believe in you, respect your opinion, if you do not do it yourself. In order to emerge victorious in competitive life situations, you definitely need to develop self-confidence
A simple instruction on how to maintain charisma and charm at the most crucial moment. Posture It's amazing how posture can transform your entire appearance and change your inner state and feelings. If you are feeling overwhelmed and insecure, just straighten your back
Even the most beautiful and well-groomed person sometimes has no friends. His acquaintances are limited to a circle of colleagues, but they do not strive for intimacy either. Good looks are not enough to be more attractive to others. Change yourself, reconsider your view of the world, and people will be drawn to you
Feelings of guilt can put a lot of pressure on a woman. The feeling that something is going wrong in life, and the responsibility for this lies with her herself, can bring a girl to depression. To prevent this, you need to work with your settings
Fathers and children often argue with each other. There is a clash of interests in almost all such relations, but it is important that the conflict does not drag out and does not interfere with the life of the participants. Correct communication will help smooth out contradictions, reach a compromise
Existence within a narrow framework forces us to walk in a vicious circle, over and over again repeating lessons learned long ago. Linearity and stereotyped thinking very much interferes with developing and achieving success in any business
As strange as it may be, you just need to be carried away at the right time. On the one hand, you should not constantly pester the child, but an indifferent attitude will not lead to good. If he needs your help, then it is worth helping, being a part of his life, if you don’t need help, you should not keep him tight-lipped, you need to give freedom of choice
Often circumstances force us to change our place of work. In this case, it is not enough to find a job, you still need to be able to join a new team. Regardless of their status and professional skills, anyone is worried before meeting new colleagues
Cyril is a very purposeful man. He always knows what he needs and goes to the goal in a variety of ways. For him, there are often no obstacles, he is ready for anything for the sake of realization, and this makes him very interesting in the eyes of women
It is rather difficult to find out everything about a person. After all, even about yourself you can not know everything, what can we say about others. How a person can perceive any information, what is in his soul, what skeletons he keeps in the closet - all this is almost impossible to find out
Sometimes non-standard situations arise in which it is difficult for a person to make a decision. You have to resort to outside help and seek advice. Whose recommendations will not harm, but may actually be useful? Instructions Step 1 Listen to the views of your relatives
In a closed team, gossip and speculation spreads very quickly. To brighten up the monotony of the daily routine, people discuss the personal lives of colleagues, and sometimes come up with some information to add interest. It will not be superfluous to know how to treat such manifestations
There are many suspicious people who are ready to worry about any trifle, as well as highly responsible people who are used to bringing any business to perfection and are very afraid to make a mistake, to be not up to par. It is not easy for them to live, to build relationships with others
Today, there are more and more training programs that take place in the form of trainings. This is a great opportunity to learn something new, change and transform your life. But depending on the topic, the result may be different. Instructions Step 1 Psychological training always has a specific topic
Everyday communication is a very important component for our success, and in general for good self-awareness. Therefore, we need to remember a few tricks that will allow us to communicate with each other more effectively. Instructions Step 1 When meeting, be sure to remember the name of the interlocutor and use it the next time you meet with him
No one is immune from the rudeness of others in everyday life: they cheated in the store, pushed in the transport, did not answer the greeting … You can protect yourself from unpleasant remarks and frankly boorish antics by mastering a few simple tricks
Most people are sensitive to criticism. Whether it's criticism at work or personal criticism. In a number of situations, criticism is indispensable, but it is within our power to make it useful. In psychology, useful criticism is called constructive feedback
In the modern world, one cannot do without the ability to establish contacts. Almost all professions require workers to interact with people. It remains to be seen how to develop communication skills. Nice word Agree that all people are pleased to hear compliments addressed to themselves, especially if they sound to a specific situation, state
Communicating with other people is not easy. In any team, there are such negative phenomena as gossip, conflicts, intrigues. This cannot be avoided, but it is possible, observing certain rules, to create comfortable conditions for oneself in the work collective
In psychology, there is a "three-stage rocket" technique. He helps to express his painful thoughts and feelings to the communication partner, while not offending him. With the help of the "three-stage rocket" you show your partner the logic of your emotions and thoughts
Negotiation methods are designed to resolve the conflict in such a way that each side wins. At the same time, mutually beneficial conditions are created, a constructive dialogue is being established, everyone can speak. In negotiations, accept to state your desires, opinions, expectations, doubts and receive feedback
Many people do not know how to refuse the requests of others to the detriment of their own interests and benefits. However, if you analyze the situation, you can understand that the asker may well do without your help. It is important to prioritize correctly, and for this you need to think about a few points
Communication plays a very important role in our life. What kind of interlocutor are you? There are people who start long monologues, usually lonely people. If you don't want to be such a boring conversation partner, it is important to be empathetic to other people
Easy dialogue with different people, from plumber to business partner, is a key skill. You will learn how to build effective dialogue with a few simple tips. Negotiations accompany us constantly. Making an appointment, getting an interview, asking for a raise - these are all negotiation options
When communication takes place, a person usually observes the interlocutor: how he stands or how he sits, how he looks, whether he is doing something at the time of the conversation. But to have a complete picture of who is in front of you, it is worth "