Motivation 2024, November
If your intellectual success leaves much to be desired, but the thirst to become smart does not leave for a second, you should seriously engage in training that gray matter that is in your head. The development of the mind and intellect is not an easy task, but with special diligence and perseverance, you will be able to develop the most valuable ability to think, and this will only be your merit
If you decide to seek help from a psychologist, you will be faced with a number of questions, but the main one is how to find a worthy one? How not to fall into the hands of a charlatan, who will not only "divorce" for money, but also cause psychological harm?
In any country in the world, in every city, on any street, and even in any company, there are smart people, but there are not smart enough. In addition, it is not uncommon for stupid creatures to be found in our life, which, at times, lead a normal person into a stupor
The ability to conduct a conversation seems so natural and commonplace that only a small percentage of people pay sufficient attention to this process. Psychologists, meanwhile, have proven that the use of the simplest speech structures and an elementary understanding of the structure of a conversation can make any person much more attractive in the eyes of others
During communication, a person makes gestures that are little understood by himself, which express his thoughts. The interlocutor perceives this gesture, but most often does not subject it to analysis. However, with the help of facial expressions and gestures, even more information is transmitted than with the help of words
No matter how carefully you choose your social circle, it is hardly possible to limit it only to relatives and friends. Every day you are in contact with a variety of people, among them there are both nice and frankly unpleasant. It is necessary to learn how to build communication with them so that it does not negatively affect your mood and well-being
People, unfortunately, very often face lies in everyday life. But in order to determine whether a person is telling you the truth or not, cunning devices are not needed at all, it is enough to carefully observe his facial expressions, gestures, and manner of conversation
Psychologists say that in most cases, lies can be identified. No matter how hard a lying person tries, his body, on a subconscious level, will send certain "beacons" that he is trying to deceive. And you can find out that they tell you a lie by simply observing the face of the interlocutor
There are often situations when you have to prove your case or convince your opponents of it. Skills and the ability to prove their case are especially needed for those whose activities are related to people: educators, trade consultants, leaders of work collectives, politicians
Many people periodically face psychological pressure from the outside, which can manifest itself in different ways. Parents put pressure on children to meet their expectations, friends, bureaucratic apparatus and the state put pressure on them
We live in a world of people, and every day we have to communicate with them in one way or another. Someone is sociable on his own, and he takes pleasure in making new acquaintances, talking with clients, etc. And for some, communication is given with difficulty
It's no secret that many girls have difficulty communicating with guys. Often, young people find a sense of insecurity when they are forced to answer a young person's questions. Of course, everything depends on the questions themselves. Instructions Step 1 Relationships are partly made up of questions and answers
Everyone experiences a sense of emptiness and loneliness from time to time. But if these feelings have become prevalent in your life, you need to think about what you are doing wrong and try to change the situation. How to attract people into your life?
In everyday life, we often argue with someone: with relatives, with friends, with colleagues, with bosses, and sometimes even with strangers who met us by chance. Often, due to such a dispute, the mood spoils, everything is boiling inside, but there is no result:
Sadly, many people live with mentally unstable relatives. They can be absolutely harmless or, on the contrary, aggressive, but they all require a special attitude towards themselves. In any case, you need to get the advice of a specialist who will look at the medical history of the “problem” family member and give practical advice on how you should behave when communicating with him
Look at how often you can see amazement and delight on a child's face. For him, every day opens new miracles, and he does not get tired of rejoicing and admiring this. Becoming adults, people often lose the ability to be surprised and are afraid to show that they are interested in something in order to look sophisticated, those who can no longer be surprised
Why do people like each other? One of the most important life rules says: "Treat people the way you want them to treat you." It is called golden. In order for your friends and acquaintances to treat you well, it is worth learning how to please people
Communication is an integral part of people's lives. Therefore, it is so important to strive to ensure that any conversation is enjoyable. And it is pleasant to conduct a dialogue only on topics of interest and with a good interlocutor. Instructions Step 1 Monitor your speech
Many postulates that the science of physiognomy deduces, linking the features of a person's appearance with the properties of his character, have practical application. You can use this knowledge in your daily life, it can come in handy especially in those cases when you communicate with strangers
Some women in their lives are faced with obsessive girlfriends. They not only consume time, but still do not understand hints, spoil relationships with others with their tactless remarks and complicate life. Instructions Step 1 When the endurance comes to an end and you have a desire to get rid of such a friend, think about what made you endure before
It would seem that the ability to express one's thoughts is a natural human need. But not everyone can easily boast of this ability, and there are many explanations for this. Starting from the causes of tongue-tied language, you can find ways out and, finally, learn to express yourself
The ability to conduct a dialogue is a whole art, it is not without reason that it was so appreciated both in ancient times and in the period of bourgeois home salons and circles. Learn to have the right conversation and you will be a welcome guest at all events
The vast majority of people are lying. Even if this lie is sometimes innocent, our society can no longer be imagined without lies. Every person who lies is guided by different reasons. Almost everyone lies so as not to upset loved ones, not to hurt friends, not to lose the affection of dear people
In addition to ordinary speech, a person actively uses gestures. Often, non-verbal communication methods provide much more information about the interlocutor than his words. Knowing the basic interpretations of gestures, you can find out when a person is lying
Great literary works and the surrounding society teach to treat others with understanding, care, empathy. This is important both in business negotiations and in family communication. Anyone who knows how to feel the interlocutor is able to look at the situation from the point of view of another person, which is important for establishing harmony in a relationship
Joining a new team, going to negotiations with colleagues, an interview or other important meeting, a person, as a rule, wants to achieve the desired result. How can this be achieved? Some verbal and non-verbal techniques will help you find a common language with people, not only in business, but also in your personal life
Today it is quite difficult to find a person endowed with excellent diction and speech. Few have a pleasant voice and the ability to pronounce words clearly and legibly, but they also do not use their voice and various means of increasing the impact on the audience
“The word is not a sparrow, if it flies out, you won't catch it” - how much sense there is in this folk wisdom! Surely every person, at least sometimes, but had to bitterly regret that he could not restrain himself, did not remain silent in this or that situation
Gestalt therapy is a branch of classical psychology. Its main distinguishing feature is the study of the situation “here and now”. The Gestalt psychologist monitors the client and draws conclusions based on the data obtained. It is necessary - analysis of the interlocutor's speech
In life, sometimes there are situations when it is very important to understand whether a person is lying or not. You can recognize a liar without using a lie detector. Sometimes it is enough to look into his eyes. Instructions Step 1 See where the other person's gaze is directed during a conversation
Communication problems in modern society are as diverse as the people who experience difficulties with it. To improve your communication, it is necessary, first of all, to understand the reasons that hinder the development of a person's sociability
Friends and relatives wish newlyweds to live in peace and harmony. The young themselves dream of loving and understanding each other to the grave. However, unfortunately, not every family's dreams and wishes come true. The cause of the conflict can be different views on the upbringing of children, on how to spend a vacation or spend money, jealousy, resentment for the unfair distribution of family responsibilities, drunkenness of one of the spouses and many other situ
How to understand what kind of person is in front of you if you barely know each other? Of course, the best way is to spend some time with him, chat, observe the behavior of the person you are interested in, visit various situations that reveal the character
Conflicts happen even between people who love and understand each other, and in a work collective they are, perhaps, inevitable. Of course, one should not expect a constant attack from colleagues and acquaintances, but one must be ready to get out of any situation without any special moral losses
"Yes, he is henpecked", "His wife keeps under her heel" - some of the most offensive phrases for a man. Timid and shy women, too spoiled by male devotion, often become tyrants, and men surrender under their pressure, agree on everything
Shy people often cannot adequately respond to boors and tactless interlocutors. Then, analyzing the conflict that occurred, the person finds the right words and intonation, but it's too late. In order not to get into a humiliating position anymore, you need to think over your behavior in a given situation in advance
It is not always easy to convince someone to accept someone else's point of view. Each person has his own opinion, which he is sometimes ready to defend, even contrary to common sense, although to convince some it is enough to give weighty arguments, but some are generally ready to take their word for it
Some people, for various reasons, find themselves in a vacuum without communication. Old connections are lost, but new ones have not been created. In such a situation, you need to start looking for new friends, who are not so difficult to make
School years are not only about lessons, grades, and homework. It is at school that first love comes. Notes with confessions, meetings at breaks, anxiety and doubts about the truth of feelings take the girls' thoughts more lessons. Instructions Step 1 Evaluate how often the boy's gaze is directed in your direction
The habit of talking about yourself using a third party may seem deliberate and even annoying to someone. In fact, a person who speaks in this way does not necessarily strive to assert himself at someone's expense and stand out from the rest