Psychology 2024, November
It is unpleasant for everyone to be deceived. How often do we then curse ourselves for being too gullible! But in most cases, a lie can be recognized. Of course, these observations will help more when you communicate with an acquaintance, even a loved one, but if you are talking to a person for the first time, and all of the listed signs are present, it is highly likely that you are being lied to
Often times in life there are situations when you want to share your experiences with a loved one, friend, boss, or with a stranger who has had a strong influence. It happens that in this case the situation does not allow us to express our feelings or we do not know how to do it
There are people who feel great in any company, they can talk about anything and with anyone. There are others who get lost in conversation with strangers. The latter often envy the former. They think that the ability to communicate with people is innate
In order to change our personal life, move up the career ladder, or just get a lot of pleasant experiences, we all have to communicate with other people. After all, if we cannot talk positively with others, then we will not be able to gain authority in society, make new friends and acquaintances
She sometimes speaks in a "foreign" language that no one will ever understand without a dictionary? The article offers a female interpreter. "What are you doing Friday night?" Means, "Shall we spend Friday night together?
To combat uncontrollable rage, develop a plan of action and promise yourself to follow it. Observe yourself, evaluate changes in your own behavior and adjust the strategy "on the spot." Necessary Subscription to a fitness club or pool, green tea, a good friend, a selection of soothing music, aroma oils, cake, candles, a trip to a seaside resort
Overly modest people find it very difficult to achieve their goals and move forward on the career ladder. Usually, when communicating, they feel some discomfort and self-doubt, as a result of which they begin to withdraw. To prevent this from happening, you need to overcome your modesty, and then you can feel like a successful and happy person
People with strong wills always achieve their goals. They are able to go towards a dream, overcoming all difficulties that arise on the way. Willpower can and should be nurtured by everyone. Man is a unique creation of nature. Only people are given to change themselves, forming character
Often, thinking about life, people realize that they could have achieved certain goals and successes if they had not succumbed to despondency, laziness and other factors in their time. But no need to wait for a new week for changes, but start now and rejoice in a year
Fear indifference: it means that the living forces in a person have extinguished. A person who is immersed in depression is not really interested in what is happening around him, but there is nothing good in this painful state. On the other hand, feigned indifference can be part of your strategy
The ability to be vigilant has not prevented anyone yet. A person attentive to details is always productive. He subtly senses perceived dangers and possible prospects. How do you learn to be careful? The phrase "to be on the alert"
The excitement of being intimate with another person is natural. This feeling has its own special charm, because it is not in vain that some men and women are looking for it on the side, having ceased to experience such awe with a close and familiar partner
Recently, the teachings on the disclosure of femininity have become more and more relevant. They have many followers, because the modern world has long been in crisis, and men and women have actually changed roles. Psychologists and adherents of various religions offer their own ways of solving the problem at different levels - from a primitive change of style in clothes to correction of the subconscious
Charming girls find contact with people more easily and quickly gain the attention of the opposite sex. It's not about external beauty, sexuality, or fashionable clothes. It's just that such women know how to best present themselves. Attitude to yourself If you want to be charming, first of all, love yourself
One philosopher once said: "The future can be changed by active intervention in the present." Use this thought as a guide as you dream about your ideal picture of the future. And what else can contribute to favorable changes in the future, we will consider further
Everything in the world is governed by the law of cause and effect. Press the button, you will get the result. I just want to know on what and at what time to influence in order to achieve the desired effect. Indeed, sometimes we cannot force ourselves, motivate ourselves in the right way for a certain action, which, it would seem, is wholly and completely in our power
The path to managing the fair sex is through understanding her motives and desires. When you find out how a woman lives, then you can win her over and influence her behavior. Instructions Step 1 Learn the basics of personality and relationship psychology
Even in ancient times, people understood a simple thing: in reality there is no ideal. Accordingly, each of us has some shortcomings that often hinder us in everyday life or in communication and make life difficult. However, the very first attempts to get rid of their own shortcomings show that this is not so easy
You do not seem to like to sit back, but laziness suddenly attacks on the sly. Shoulders sag, thoughts full of discord. I don't want to do anything, but I must. It will take some effort to regain your former vigor. How lazy are you?
It is rather difficult to conduct a reasoned dispute, this skill is a sign of high skill. However, there are many tricks that can allow you to defend your point of view in any dispute. By owning them, you will always be confident in yourself, and you will also be able to stand up for yourself and your beliefs
Life is unpredictable in itself, but often we ourselves do not always know what to expect from ourselves, and what character traits or abilities lie in the depths of our personality. Self-control is a valuable ability, which lies in the ability to control your emotions and actions, and above all - thoughts
Betrayal of your own children is very painful. After all, they are the closest, dearest. But as often happens, the most severe pain is caused by those whom a person considered his support and hope. Children are part of the soul. It is unlikely that there is someone closer and dearer
Life, when any problems are solved for you, is easy and carefree. However, sooner or later, most young people understand that it is necessary to begin adulthood. The decision to become an independent person is only the first step, after which you still have a lot to do
It is even difficult to imagine how many trauma we actually carry in ourselves, how many uncried tears, restrained words and screams we carry in ourselves. How much pain, resentment, bitterness and much more we keep with us for years, what a heavy burden we carry on our shoulders through life, not daring to throw it off and straighten up
Often women complain about the lack of care from loved ones. They would like someone to help. But for some reason people are in no hurry to do it. Is everyone around you so insensitive? How can you teach your community to take care of you? Instructions Step 1 First, understand why others have stopped caring about you
Insecure people rarely succeed in life. To build a career and build a strong family, you need to be a brave and determined person. And do not hesitate to express your own opinion in a conversation. Instructions Step 1 If you are shy about talking to strangers, look for reasons for your insecurity
Everyone is on his own mind. Perhaps people were originally created to have their own views on life and opinions about the world around them. People with a similar outlook become friends, with different ones - opponents. And this is natural, otherwise life would turn into utopian boredom
A person often has to express his opinion on any issue, enter into discussions, discussing this or that problem, object and prove his case. In other words, argue with other people. Alas, not everyone knows how to behave politely and culturally during an argument
Psychologists note that people with flexible thinking are able to act most productively. They are creative and see many more ways to solve problems, connect with people more easily and avoid conflict. Thinking flexibility test In everyday communication, you can test any person for the flexibility of thinking
In the modern world, there are a huge number of people with low self-esteem. Perhaps this is due to family problems, lack of communication with peers in childhood, the rapid pace and rhythm of life development, which many do not keep up with
Low self-esteem is very dangerous. She can not only destroy all motivation, but also lead to suicide. Therefore, this question should not be triggered under any circumstances. If your parents applied the wrong parenting model or you were bullied too often in school, then this is not a reason to remain insecure as a person
Some individuals are attracted to a large number of completely different people. It's all about certain character traits that make communication with them pleasant and comfortable. Character traits People who are attracted to others may have a certain set of personality traits
It is difficult to be spontaneous in today's harsh world. A person creates masks-images for those around him and hides under them, fearing to show his sincere emotions, to follow his inner impulses. Gradually it becomes a heavy burden, killing naturalness
A person has certain qualities. Some have more developed positive, while others have negative aspects of the personality. But people tend to improve and develop themselves, although this is not easy, and sometimes exhausting work. Instructions Step 1 To begin with, clearly define what quality you want to develop in yourself and to what extent
In the modern world, self-presentation plays an important part in a person's personal success. You need to clearly know how to present yourself, your pros and even cons. A person does not have a complete absence of minuses, but, along with this, it is possible to paint every minus as a plus - it all depends on the point of application of quality and the specific situation of use
There are difficult situations in life in which you cannot do without professional psychological assistance. As a rule, constant stress, a feeling of loss, loneliness, as well as addiction to bad habits (alcohol, smoking, overeating) require psychological intervention
There are many situations in life when you need to give the impression of a serious and intelligent person. This especially applies to getting a good job or career advancement. A business person must look serious: this is reflected both in behavior and in clothes
To become smarter than now, you need to constantly train your brain, keep it in good shape, as well as monitor your diet, exercise regularly or be outdoors. Solve problems All skills improve if you constantly hone them. If you work out the abs, you will soon see the cherished cubes on your stomach, and the same with the brain
Recognizing a person in an hour is essential for recruiting experts. They use these skills in order to match the wishes of the company's management to select the most suitable candidate for a particular position for which certain skills are required
In the context of psychotherapy, an unfinished gestalt (from German gestalt - form, appearance, image) is an unmet need seeking satisfaction or some other way out. The increasing tension from dissatisfaction prompts a person to take actions that bring the realization of a given need closer