Self-esteem 2024, November
The pace of life is constantly accelerating. There is not enough time for everything, and people often save on sleep. From this, the working capacity and, in general, the psychological state of a person deteriorate. But lack of sleep directly affects life expectancy
To get what you want and change your life for the better, you need to set goals correctly and be able to achieve them. Not all people have the emotional strength to do this. You can strengthen internal resources if you work on yourself. Instructions Step 1 Perhaps the person got too much without effort
Being overly shy can create a lot of difficulties at any age. Timid children find it difficult to adapt in kindergarten or school. As an adult, it is not uncommon for a shy person to encounter problems at school or at work. How can you get rid of increased shyness, become at least a little more self-confident?
The need to be yourself is one of the most important human needs. Of course, her dissatisfaction is incapable of harm as much as, for example, the lack of oxygen or water. However, regular refusal, suppression of one's own desires can ultimately lead to serious psychological problems
In any relationship, no matter how interesting and sincere they are, there comes a period when you want to take a break from them. I would like to forget for a while about quarrels, jealousy, claims and other unpleasant moments that are present in any relationship
It is not always possible to win in life, sometimes you have to accept defeat. Many do not know how to lose. They start to worry and get upset. Learning to accept defeat is difficult; it is, so to speak, a whole art. Of course, winning is always preferable to losing
Striving for the ideal is not beneficial in all cases. Quite often, because of perfectionism, we criticize ourselves. We begin to think that the people around us judge us. In most cases, perfectionism only hurts. And it is to this topic that the review will be devoted
It is generally accepted that a woman differs from a man in her patience. She can endure for a long time the same man who causes her moral and sometimes physical pain. Is it always good? Do I have to endure and is this such a good feminine quality?
A popular myth was that we only use a tenth of the brain. This myth has long been debunked. Note, however, that the brain consumes as much as a fifth of the energy that comes from food. It is not surprising that he is trying in every possible way to save money and go into power saving mode
Graduation from school is an important social stage for every person. So, even yesterday's schoolboy, and now the applicant stands at the crossroads of opportunities and choices. This stage is accompanied by both pleasant moments - the last bell, graduation, and stressful situations - the exam and entrance exams
In psychology, there are many different approaches to the perception of a person, to his psyche. Often the client is not only unable to solve his problem on his own, but even to see it. Systemic constellations are a psychological method that allows the client to look at their situation from the other side, try to assess what is happening impartially and start looking for a solution
Panic is a misperception of reality and an erroneous assessment of what is happening. A completely harmless situation seems very dangerous to us. People prone to panic attacks are sensitive to any bodily sensation. For example, one person will consider an unpleasant feeling in the abdomen a little discomfort, while another will complain of severe pain in the entire abdomen
Women are great at emphasizing their dignity. But, alas, they are much better at finding flaws in themselves and desperately fighting them. Want to know why? The main reasons, of course, lie within. But there are also those that lie on the surface
When everything is good and smooth in life, we do not notice how time flies. We are happy. However, this is not always the case, difficulties cannot be avoided. In a difficult period, you need to show patience and humility, try not to get discouraged and not give up
Every year, like every moment, is very special and important. And already at the end of November we begin to feel a little sad, a slight melancholy appears, and every time we are surprised at how quickly time has flown by. WHY IT IS IMPORTANT TO SUMMER At the end of the year, we start asking ourselves questions, did I manage to do everything?
In the modern world, time management is owned by the most successful people who cannot do without daily planning, otherwise all their affairs will go downhill. For a productive life, every person needs to learn this art, because everyone dreams of large-scale success, and you can't do without a plan in this matter
New Year's holidays are the best time to plan for the next year. Determine for yourself what you want to achieve, what goals to achieve. It is known that habit plays a key role in achieving any undertaking. "Choose the best, and habit will make it enjoyable"
Many people want to do the job efficiently. But often people spend a lot of time on nonsense. The Pareto method will help to cope with the problem. He will teach you how to save your time, effort and money. History of creation The Italian economist Vilfredo Pareto invented the method back in 1897
Sometimes it seems to white ethics that they are not white ethics, because they do not have the ability to guess the mood of a person, to feel it. But is it "supposed" for a white ethic to be able to do this? In order not to confuse white ethics with white intuition, it is necessary to remember the essence of these socionic functions
After a divorce, two stages begin in a person's life - mourning the old, life together and building oneself as a separate person. And it is better to move on to the second stage when the mourning process is over, so as not to make mistakes. Divorce is the beginning of a new life Divorces are different - by mutual agreement, desirable and completely unwanted
If a person lives in the present, here and now, he acts as productively and efficiently as possible, no matter what he undertakes. And it is precisely this realization that he exists and lives in the present day that attracts good luck and success to him in almost everything
30 years is a kind of milestone, which young people perceive as a transitional age into maturity and adulthood. By this age, a person is "overgrown" with property, family, friends, bad habits. The transition from adolescence to maturity is accompanied by serious rethinking
It is known that absolutely everyone has complexes, but some cope with them safely and lead, as psychologists believe, a full life, while others are fixated on their shortcomings and do not know how to get rid of them. It is important to be able to overcome complexes, because this skill can have a positive effect on the future
Low self-esteem is quite common. A person may not even suspect that it is in her, as he is busy with his complexes and problems. But as many people know, the first step to solving a problem is to admit it. Working on your self-esteem is a necessary factor in bringing a person closer to happiness and productivity
We are all subject to self-criticism in one way or another. This is not a bad thing, since being dissatisfied with ourselves allows us to improve. But what if we criticize ourselves too harshly? The inner critic is formed in the period of growing up, when the child is explained what is good and what is bad
To overcome fear, not just failure, you must first acknowledge it. And after it is recognized and realized, you can decide whether it is worth overcoming it. Because fear always informs a person that there is a problem. Fear often hides other emotions, such as dissatisfaction
Information surrounds people everywhere. These are necessary knowledge, important actions, phone numbers, names. It seems that it is impossible to control everything. This function is performed by memory. Memory is a renewable resource
They say that being happy is not easy. However, this statement cannot be true, because there is no single definition of the word "happiness". There are many tips on how to be happy, but let's look at why you are already. Instructions Step 1 Many people are used to taking things for granted
Self-confidence is an important component, without which one can only dream of a fulfilling life. It depends on her whether a person will be respected or not. She allows herself to be loved, pampered when necessary. Self-confidence will not allow a person to get involved in situations in which they feel uncomfortable
We all know the feeling of regret about the past. It appears periodically in our lives. There are people who successfully deal with it and continue to move forward. But there are also many who are firmly stuck in their past, while losing the present
Often we beat ourselves up for mistakes we made in the past, but who knows, maybe they helped us become who we are. When assessing your life, the main attention should be paid not to the acquired material benefits, but to what you have learned and achieved spiritually
In the book “Willpower Does Not Work,” the author writes about why achieving goals is not easy if you work only on yourself, fight your weaknesses and temper your character. He proposes to expand the view of the problem of "self and purpose"
In recent years, we have increasingly noticed that the younger generation is aging very quickly. This applies to girls aged 25-30. So what is behavioral aging? The term "behavioral aging" itself was only coined in 2013. It was then that scientists began to investigate its causes, using three disciplines at once:
Low self-esteem is a very inconvenient thing. A person who does not know how to adequately assess his capabilities and abilities will “go with the flow” and risk missing all the most useful and exciting in life. This means that you should not wait until others will appreciate you - it is easier and more effective to start appreciating yourself
Almost all children tend to dream and fantasize to one degree or another. They do it easily, enjoy the process. But time passes, and in adulthood, not every person retains the ability and ability to dream. Moreover, some believe that dreaming is bad in principle
We often feel overwhelmed and tired already in the afternoon of the working day. To overcome this condition, you must follow simple rules that have been known for a long time. And also limit the intake of tonic drinks and get rid of bad habits
You've probably noticed that the same unpleasant situations recur from time to time in your life. Either you find yourself betrayed by a friend, then for some reason you owe everyone, then relatives and friends load you with requests that you cannot refuse, and then you shirk and reproach yourself, but continue to behave flawlessly … As a rule, such cases are based on life a personality scenario that over and over again "
Weekends are created for relaxation, so that people can get distracted from work and do interesting things. However, many do not have time to enjoy their vacation. They will either sleep until noon, or forget to turn off the chats. As a result, they do not have time to fully rest
Residents of large cities every day have to face the need to make decisions, quickly respond to events and words. During the day, stress levels increase, and this only exacerbates the situation. Especially often problems arise for people who have to work a lot:
At first glance, this may seem surprising, but Argentine tango is a kind of mirror that allows a person to see the essence of many of his problems. Already during the first lessons, you will certainly notice this, moreover, some discoveries may surprise you